Proverbs 16:24 ( NLT)
“Kind words are like honey, sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.”
There’s something truly special about a conversation that centers on God’s love, His grace, and the truths of His Word. Those sweet exchanges are like honey, bringing comfort and encouragement that satisfy our souls. Trust me, we need people in our lives who bring this to the table. In case you didn’t realize, a kind word can change the course of someone’s life forever. It’s not about exchanging ideas, or always trying to be right. It’s recognizing that a Godly conversation has the power to uplift, encourage, and refresh us in ways we might not expect. Sometimes we forget how much influence we carry by speaking a few words of God’s truth. What a privilege to let this be our commitment—to season every conversation with Godliness and wisdom, knowing we’ll be blessed for the same.
I can remember a young follower of Christ sharing with me how, during her high school years, she endured deep emotional trauma because of the way others saw her. Several girls would make hurtful comments about the shape of her nose or the way she styled her hair, and those words stuck with her far longer than anyone could have imagined. As she grew into adulthood, those same harsh words shaped a negative self-image, one that clouded the way she saw herself. Rather than the healthy, godly image God intended for her, she was always subconscious about her appearance, and often isolated herself. It’s a reminder of how powerful our words can be — they can either build someone up or tear them down. This is what Proverbs 18:21 means when it tells us that life and death is in the power of the tongue.
As believers of Christ, we become instruments of encouragement by speaking the Word of God into the lives of those around us. We carry within us the power to shift someone’s life simply by being a light in the darkness of their world. Part of being a Christian is knowing how to govern ourselves in our interactions with others. It requires us to show respect, love, and diplomacy, wherever and whenever possible.
Even though we go to church, listen to praise songs, and speak in tongues, we can still fall short by being mean-spirited and disrespectful. This is not the way God’s people should behave, and it is certainly not the way a woman of God should conduct herself. We should show godly love, even when we don’t feel like it.
In addition, we should be women who know the power of restraint, choosing silence over gossip or spreading rumors. James 1:19 (NLT) reminds us, “Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.” Our conversations should be carefully governed with diligence and care. If we speak the wrong words at the wrong time, they can have a lasting impact, even crushing our blessings. Refraining from saying harmful words is crucial—it’s not just about what we say, but also what we choose not to say.
As a woman, you have so much power to change your life by the words you speak—by your confessions, conversations, and any other form of communication. Your words not only shape your reality but also reveal your inner strength. They convey your confidence and your commitment to God’s purpose. One of the first things a man notices about a woman is the way she expresses herself, because the way she speaks reflects her identity and the depth of her soul. God has entrusted us with the love and power inside of us to make a difference, and He wants us to recognize the strength we already carry. As women, we are significant powerhouses, and when we embrace the power of our words, we can transform our lives and influence those around us. He wants us to recognize what’s at work already on the inside of us.
We can lead by example. Never give with the expectation of receiving something in return. As spiritually mature sisters in Christ, we must understand our responsibility to leave people better off than they were before we entered their lives. If you have the ability and the means to serve someone, do so without hesitation. The love of God within you is outwardly manifested through our actions to bless others. Colossians 4:6 (NLT) reminds us, “Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.” When we uplift others, we are reflecting Christ in our lives. This verse serves as a gentle reminder to be mindful of how our words can be constructive and loving. Let’s make pleasing God our priority and strive to make our conversations, behaviors, and lifestyles a living demonstration of His love and power. ■
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