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Spiritual maturity isn’t just about getting older – it’s about becoming more like our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. But let’s keep it real: growing older and maturing physically and mentally often means dealing with more baggage—baggage a lot of us we didn’t even realize we were carrying. Like me,Read More →

No one can truly describe heartbreak or understand the depth of pain it brings unless they’ve experienced it themselves. Even after going through a few broken relationships, when the next one ends, it still feels just as heavy and painful as the first. It’s like your whole world falls apart,Read More →

Psalm 37:4 (NLT) is a verse that should be imprinted on the minds and hearts of every person with a dream. It tells us, “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires.” This truth sets the priorities of our sojourn on earth, and then itRead More →

Are you afraid that you’ll never get married? Do you believe you’re not good enough, or have you allowed other fears and doubts to creep into your heart and mind? Recently, I watched a Christian woman begin to acquiesce to the possibility of never meeting someone who would want toRead More →

With all its ups and downs, life can be very unpredictable, and for many, the most painful trial comes when a marriage is on the brink of falling apart. It’s when the person you vowed to love, honor, and cherish has walked away or seems emotionally distant. The hurt isRead More →

What happens when someone starts making excuses for accepting the bare minimum from others because their life feels dull or hopeless? It’s something that can happen to anyone. For example, someone might feel a spark of hope after just a few interactions with someone new—maybe a few conversations or someRead More →

Ever heard of the “breakthrough factor?” It’s the sweet spot in life where everything we’ve prayed for finally comes together. Newness makes a grand entrance, ushering in a new job, financial stability, and, best of all, a new relationship. Our energy is high, and our optimism soars even higher. We’reRead More →

“How much longer do I have to wait? What else am I supposed to do?” Imagine being told that to receive what you desire most; you’d need to give up everything you’ve spent years building. Most of us would probably think, “Uh, I don’t think so!” Our minds struggle withRead More →

Our Heavenly Father is omnipresence, omniscient, and omnipotent. There isn’t anything  He can’t do, and He knows everything there is to know. Proverbs 15:11 (NLT) tells us, “Even Death and Destruction hold no secrets from the Lord. How much more does he know the human heart!” This verse hits homeRead More →

Jeremiah 17:7-8 (NLT) tells us, “But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with roots that reach deep into the water. Such trees are not bothered by the heat or worried byRead More →

Isaiah 43:1 (NLT) declares, “But now, O Jacob, listen to the Lord who created you. O Israel, the one who formed you says, ‘Do not be afraid, for I have ransomed you. I have called you by name; you are mine.’” Understanding who you belong to early in adulthood canRead More →

1Corinthians 6:12 (NLT) declares, “You say, ‘I am allowed to do anything’—but not everything is good for you. And even though ‘I am allowed to do anything,’ I must not become a slave to anything.” As we transition into adulthood, we often feel a powerful sense of independence and entitlement.Read More →

Life can sometimes feel like a confusing maze, where it seems like rules don’t matter and actions go unnoticed. Many people wander through this world believing they can act without consequence, thinking that they can do harm without facing any repercussions. But let’s be real: that’s not how life works.Read More →

Many of God’s daughters put a lot of effort into relationships that were never meant to end in marriage. When these relationships drag on, they often bring a burden that takes time to notice. By the time you realize you’re on the wrong track, it can be hard to changeRead More →

I’ve often heard the saying that you don’t truly know a person until you live with them. While there’s some truth to this, the Bible teaches us that the true nature of a person is revealed by what’s in their heart. Proverbs 27:19 (NLT) says, “As a face is reflectedRead More →

Here’s the scenario of a Christian woman who is turning 50, has never been married, and deeply desires to be. She is troubled by the advice and attitudes of those around her: “What happened? It feels like I just turned 40 yesterday. Time has flown by so quickly. In justRead More →

A dear friend was finally on what she thought was the path out of a long period of singleness. She had met someone new at her church, and things seemed to be progressing well. He was following the steps that her pastor had taught—pursuing her with genuine interest. He calledRead More →

Marriage was never intended by our Heavenly Father to be a difficult union. It is infinitely more than a legal contract. From the very beginning, God established marriage as a sacred covenant. In Genesis 2:24 (NLT), we read, “This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and isRead More →

When you meet someone new who seems compatible, it’s very exciting. You might think that your prayers have been answered and find your perspective shifting from being lonely and sad to feeling optimistic and hopeful. Over the past several months, you’ve invested quality time praying often, studying the scriptures andRead More →

Josephine’s biological parents were both alcoholics—her mother frequently in and out of rehab, and her father unable to keep a job for more than a month or two. Her grandmother took her in, raising her alongside her two cousins. Despite the abundant love Josephine’s grandmother provided, she always felt anRead More →

A close friend and I were talking about how much she’s grown over the past year. She’s been abstinent and placing her trust in God while navigating her current season of singleness. Her last three-year relationship ended in disappointment when the man she was with confessed he wasn’t ready forRead More →

In Song of Solomon 2:15 (NLT), we read, “Catch all the foxes, those little foxes, before they ruin the vineyard of love, for the grapevines are blossoming!” In this verse, “foxes” are used metaphorically. Foxes were known to be destructive to vineyards, and during Old Testament times, their presence wasRead More →

In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NLT), God’s Word teaches us a profound truth: “19 Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, 20 for God bought you with aRead More →

King Solomon is the wisest man that ever lived. His father, King David, trusted God to deliver, forgive, and guide him through life. In Proverbs 4:4-5 (NLT), Solomon reflects on the lessons his father handed down to him: “4 My father taught me, “Take my words to heart. Follow myRead More →

There are inevitably days when being single feels like it’s outstayed its welcome. Longing for the companionship of a husband, you yearn for those days to pass quickly and never return. “Lord, how much longer must I wait?” you ask. The truth of Jeremiah 17:7-8 (NLT) gives us much-needed encouragement:Read More →

Proverbs 31:10-12 (NLT) beautifully portrays the value of a virtuous and capable wife: “Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of herRead More →

One day, while waiting at a red light in my car, I observed a woman crossing a busy intersection, completely absorbed in her cell phone. It was a stark reminder that we can never afford to take anything for granted. In the rush of daily life, it’s all too easyRead More →

Ephesians 5:15 (NLT) delivers a powerful truth: “So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise.” This verse reminds us that God sees it all, and He’s watching not just what we do but also our faith and love. He knows the motivationRead More →