In Matthew 17:20 (NLT), Jesus is speaking to his disciples after they were unable to heal a boy possessed by a demon. This conversation occurred when a man brought his son, who was suffering from epileptic seizures caused by a demon, to Jesus for healing. The disciples attempted to cast out the demon but were unsuccessful. When Jesus later healed the boy, the disciples asked him why they couldn’t drive out the demon. Jesus replied: “Because of your little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.”
When it comes to meeting the right man, many single Christian women have little faith. They don’t realize that instead of focusing their prayers on finding a partner, they should be focusing on increasing their faith in God through Jesus Christ.
It’s heartwarming to witness two people in love choosing to embark on the journey of marriage together. However, if you find yourself in a relationship where your partner doesn’t share the same desire for marriage, you’re not obligated to keep waiting for him to change. If you’ve put in the effort to grow spiritually, and you’re ready to be a supportive partner in a relationship, there’s no reason to settle for someone who won’t value you as an equal marital partner. Rather than seeing this as a loss, see it as opportunity to grow your faith from little to mountain moving size.
Establishing a strong foundation is crucial for meaningful and lasting relationships between men and women. When both individuals anchor their faith firmly in Christ from the beginning, it sets the stage for mutual respect, admiration, and unity. This shared commitment to faith provides a solid framework for navigating challenges, resolving conflicts, and growing together. As both partners prioritize their relationship with Christ, they naturally cultivate a deep appreciation for each other’s values and character, strengthening their bond and ensuring that their relationship is built on a foundation that is both meaningful and pleasing to God.
In Matthew 7:12 (NLT), Jesus Christ said, “Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets.” This wisdom from Christ is a universal guide for how to treat people. It’s not just about being kind and nice; it’s about putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and treating them the way you’d want to be treated.
Philippians 2:3 (NLT) says, “Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.” This wisdom from God’s Word lets us know that we can’t be all about ourselves when it comes to relationships. Instead, it encourages us to think about others and put them before ourselves. It’s a reminder to be humble and considerate, not just focused on our own wants and needs.
Romans 12:9-11 (NLT) states: “9 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. 11 Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically.” This passage outlines principles for ethical living and spiritual devotion to God. The first part, in verse 9, is a huge part of building our relationships on the foundation of Jesus Christ. It says our love should be genuine, not fake. Many women settle for love that is not genuine. One of the reasons we do this is because we haven’t given ourselves the luxury of learning to love through Jesus Christ. So, we don’t recognize when we’re not receiving this level of love and caring.
Through the teachings of Christ, we learn to love and honor each other through our unwavering commitment to God. We learn to really care about other people, to put them first, and treat them with respect. If these principles are not fully grounded in us, we’re missing out on God’s best.
Verses like Matthew 7:12, Philippians 2:3, Romans 12:9-11 embody the foundational principles of our faith in Jesus Christ. They capture the heart of what it means to follow him and show us how to love, respect, and care for each other. When we bring these teachings into our relationships, they help us figure out if someone is on the same page spiritually. It’s about finding someone who shares our commitment to God and wants to build a relationship that honors Him.
When Christ is the focal point of our lives and relationships, we’re setting the stage for something extraordinary. Remaining faithful and obedient to God’s Word will lay a solid foundation in Christ for a love story that’s deeply meaningful to both individuals and helps them to keep growing their faith in God. It’s giving a relationship the best possible start, making sure it’s genuine, lasting, and reflects the beauty of God’s design for marriage. ■
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
“Because of Your Little Faith” , written by Kim Times, edited by Fran Mack and KLizzie for Sundie Morning Sistas ©2024. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord! SMS is dedicated to inspiring and encouraging Christian Women through the Word of God.