In the midst of winter, my old neighbors moved away, making room for a new family to move into their house. This new family turned out to be a single mother with three children. Initially, they seemed reserved, but my old-school upbringing prompted me to push past surface impressions and extend a welcoming hand. “Hi, I’m Kim. Welcome to the neighborhood.” The single mother’s face lit up with relief and curiosity. She eagerly asked about our neighbors and any potential concerns. “Nothing to worry about,” I reassured her. “Everyone mostly keeps to themselves here, aside from the traffic noise. It’s pretty quiet.” Her relief was palpable.
Reflecting on this encounter, I’m reminded of 1 Corinthians 10:24 (NLT): “Don’t be concerned for your own good but for the good of others.” We never truly know what others are going through or how our paths intersect with theirs. Yet, as children of God, we can make a difference in their lives, including our neighbors’.
In John 13:34-35 (NLT), our precious Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, introduces a new standard of love: “34 So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. 35 Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” This commandment isn’t merely about affection or goodwill; it’s about loving each other in a way that’s sacrificial and unconditional, mirroring the depth and selflessness of Christ’s own love for us. He emphasizes that our love for one another should mirror the way He has loved us—completely, sacrificially, and without conditions.
Many have shoved his standard aside, and the impact of this selfish act is evidenced in the confusion and chaos of the world we live in. We must understand that if everyone did their part with even the smallest acts of love and kindness, the world would be a drastically better place.
You never know someone else’s story—the hardships they’ve endured, the sadness they’re carrying in their hearts, or the long, quiet nights they endure alone. Behind closed doors, they might be battling silently, shedding tears, or dealing with fears we can’t see. We can’t imagine all the tough spots God has helped them through or how much a little kindness from us could mean to them.
A smile, a helping hand, or a thoughtful gesture can brighten their day, make them feel supported, and remind them they’re not alone. These small acts of kindness can have a big impact, spreading warmth and hope, and showing them there’s still goodness in the world.
When I moved into my new home some years ago, I was blessed with wonderful neighbors who welcomed me with open arms. On moving day, my kitchen overflowed with flowers, homemade brownies, and soup—a heartwarming welcome from families on my street. These were strangers to me at the time, yet their kindness made a profound and lasting impression on my heart.
As believers, it’s crucial for us to recognize the privilege and responsibility we have in representing Christ through acts of kindness and generosity like these. Our actions not only reflect our faith but also demonstrate God’s love in tangible ways to those around us. Just as I was touched by the kindness of my neighbors, we too can impact others by extending hospitality, love, and compassion—attributes that draw people closer to the heart of Christ.
Luke 6:31, 36-37 (NLT) presents other meaningful lessons of love from our precious Lord: “31 Do to others as you would like them to do to you. 36 You must be compassionate, just as your Father is compassionate. 37 Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.” These verses teach us to live with kindness, empathy, and forgiveness towards others, reflecting God’s love and grace in our relationships.
Whether it’s a new neighbor moving in next door or a new person entering our lives, God calls us to radiate the love of Christ. It’s our responsibility to extend kindness, compassion, and forgiveness—to treat others with the same grace and mercy that we have received from God. By doing so, we not only reflect God’s character but also fulfill Jesus’ commandments to love one another and to be a light in the world. As we embrace this calling, we participate in God’s mission of reconciliation, and we demonstrate His love to those around us who desperately need to be touched by His light.■
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
“You Don’t Know Their Story” , written by Kim Times, edited by Fran Mack and KLizzie for Sundie Morning Sistas ©2024. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord! SMS is dedicated to inspiring and encouraging Christian Women through the Word of God.